We answer all of these questions and more. As ever, there’s some fun stuff, some laughs, some love, some life and some learnings. A huge thank you to everyone who came along – and to those who tried – and to those who were there in spirit.
btitle11: The BBW interview
Thanks for taking a look at our show. This week we interview fabulous guests Kitty Dagger and Emerald Debauchery about all things BBW (that’s Big Beautiful Women). We find out about their lifestyle experiences, the ups and and downs and their advice on body confidence and ethical non monogamy.
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btitle10: the superhero conundrum
In SpicyMatch usuwanie konta this episode we talk about our weekend away with Hiscockhertail and Secret Stag and Secret Vixen. We cover some sexy play times but also reflect on introducing friends to friends and jumping back on the saddle. We catch up on Secret Vixen’s blog and talk about the bed hopper’s social.
btitle09: a multiverse of topics
We take to Twitter to ask for topics and questions and get a great range of things to cover. From what men should wear to a club to challenges with babysitting and more. We tease (quite literally) some recent adventures and also speak about rebuilding trust after breaking some rules. If you sent a question or topic our way – thank you!
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btitle08: bed hoppers rulez
In this episode we talk about rules (yes – we know that’s a trigger word for some) and how they’ve evolved over the last 18 months in particular. We cover three different occasions (with some sexy bits) where it seems that Mrs H has broken our rules/boundaries. Angelic Mr H doesn’t gloat at all about this (honest). People of Twitter join in and add their thoughts to rules and boundaries too – so you might just get a mention!
btitle07: house party Star Trek style
This one is all about Clit Bangs’ ( ) Star Trek themed birthday party. Hint – it turns into something of a borgy (borg orgy). We talk about all of the hot stuff, what (and who) went down and about a slight break in our rules. From nerves of playing again through to giant purple hats, this one literally has it all.
btitle24: MFM surprise!
In this episode we talk about a surprise MFM – and what it might mean (along with our forthcoming event) for our ever developing approach to the lifestyle. We announce that tickets for our Vanilla Alternative takeover event are now on sale. And we have a good ole natter about rules and boundaries.
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Thanks for downloading our podcast. In this bonus episode we talk about night two of our social 2.0. Why’s that interesting? Well, there’s an orgy with some amazing friends, for one. We spill the beans on some naughtiness. We also take time out to reflect on seeing our good friends Secret Stag and Secret Vixen do their Hotwife thing. We talk about how we felt seeing a very different dynamic.